BaZi : Evaluating your marriage luck.
Sunday, 10 June 2012
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Some people have perfect love luck in their life as their BaZi indicates they will have prosperous and fruitful marriage. However it is also a fact that only a very few people have all the enjoyable marriage.
There are many occasions people are not the marrying type but they try to fit into the ‘normality’ of marriage especially Asian society places a great deal of importance. The truth is for some people as far as the destiny analysis goes, some people are better off being single. While others may find their live improve after marriage or some find it no difference or some people find marriage is not what they bargain for.
When evaluating the issue of relationship especially when come to marriage, it is very important that you make the full use of the knowledge that comes from your BaZi and ask yourself “are you really the marrying type?” and “is this the right time to get married?”
You probably heard about the ladies or the guys with excellence quality and are very attractive but keep falling in love with the wrong person or the wrong type of person. Or some are trapped in some form of torturing relationship and are not able to get out.
Now when you are the marrying kind but have you got the marriage luck? When is the right time? Does your destiny path support your marriage and will your marriage prospers?
Now let take an example. Here is a lady who has had very unhappy marriage and is now divorced.
Below is her BaZi Four Pillar of Destiny.
Chart 1. Her BaZi Four Pillar of Destiny
1. She is a strong fire day master. In the study of BaZi, for a lady the element that controls her day master element is the spouse star or we called "Direct officer" Zheng-guan 正官 (官).
2. Therefore from the above chart her husband star’s element is water which is her unfavorable element. Now, imagine if your unfavorable element is your spouse star – what would you make of her relationship with her husband? The obvious answer would be bad of course. The more she tries to force a marriage the more the unfavorable element affects her relationship. In order for her marriage to work she has to wait for the time when in her luck pillars or Ta Yun when certain element appears which alleviate this flaw. If this happens her marriage will work out naturally.
Note:
You cannot just based on spouse star's element to confirm a marriage is good or bad.
Beside looking at the spouse stars and its elements to evaluate your marriage luck you need to look into others areas likes the spouse palace, the quality of the spouse stars, the quality of the luck pillar or Ta Yun elements and so on.
3. During her marriage she was not close to her husband. Her husband was having affairs with other women. Being lonely she was looking at other places for love and companion -- she was also having affairs.
4. She was divorced in 2004 once she stepped into her fifth luck pillar or Ta Yun. She is still single as in 2012.
Using BaZi analysis we are trying to ascertain not only if you will have a good or bad relationship with you spouse but also whether marriage is favorable or unfavorable. This is also used to evaluate if early or late marriage is preferable for you.
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