Hi Peter,

Just wondering if the unfavourability of an element would have an influence on the body part is governed? Are they the body parts that are more vulnerable? I'm not sure if my favourable elements are Water and Wood, but I'm suffering kidney (water) and thyroid (wood) failure with no prospect of recovery, as well as foot (wood) pain. I'm at the hospital every 3 weeks now. What about mental health? Which element would govern the brain?

You were kind enough to shed some light into my marriage luck last year. Your advice of smiling more and be less fickle is what I've been practising. Well, this year my Spouse element appears. And oddly enough, last December I met this lovely foreign guy born in 1978, but I'm uncertain if he's worth pursuing. I heard of Bazi rumours like if we have poor marriage luck we should look for a spouse with bigger age gap. He's such a steadfast companion, but the thing is he's not the right gender (you can say that I'm emotionally gay). Is this the boat I've been waiting for? Can Bazi show the homosexuality of a person and hence his/her partner? 

I highly appreciate your help. Thank you very much. 

MustardM

(30 January 198*, 12:30pm, Female). ** Do not put your full dob here.

It is your favorable that being cornered and seriously hurt.

Water your favor, water represents Kidney, once you stepped into you current TaYun, earth seriously suppressed and killed your favorable water. Imagine pouring earth into water. At the same time your hostile metal hurt your favorable wood.

Bazi can show the homosexuality of a person. It is not the right time for you to get yourself involved in any new relationship. It will do you more harm.

Cheers.

Note to all: still there are many asking how to increase certain element when they are missing or weak. When the missing elements are your hostile elements you must not try to increase them as you do not need them. It is not wrong to balance their elements but there are very strict requirements. Balance is good only when the bad elements produce the good elements and not bad elements killing your good elements. In order for bad to produce good you need to see your whole chart.

Thank you for your clarification. What about the myth that seeking spouse with significant age gap helps with poor marriage luck? 

Oh, I see. So it's when favourable elements are being attacked, not the unfavourability of elements per se, we become ill. I was under the impression that wood and water elements are bad for me because I was very ill in 2010 and nearly lost my life in 2011 (both of which are strong wood years). 

It still depend case by case some works but not all.

Each year has stem and branch. You only looking at the branch.
2010 庚寅, metal sat on wood year, 2011 辛卯 another metal sat on wood, both strong metal especially 2010,  you could have died in 2011.

Cheers.