Use the hour stated in your birth certificate - convert it into Solar time according to "Jie Qi season". Since that is the hour written on your birth certificate, and so, that is the hour that is used because you have an affinity or connection to that hour.
This is what is happening to you now.
You like your job right now but not very happy with the company that you are working with. You think they are stingy and you are not getting the pay that you are entitled to and you are getting no way. You do not like to work for others – want to be your own boss but the time is not right.
Love wise you think it is “messy” (or at least you think it is complicated) right now and you are confused. You are dating, you like her but not sure if she is the one – one short word - confused.
Cheer.
* Amended on 16/12/2013 at 02:33am