Extra Marital Affair. Fate or Coincidence? Can we tell when?
Tuesday, 10 February 2009
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Human beings are very complicated beings very intricate and complex Their behaviour are difficult to explain.
When extra-marital affair happen, the husband may still love his wife but he is still secretly seing the other woman.
He might even love them both (at least according to him or just his excuse). Or he himself cannot decide what he wanted to do.
There have being cases, husband is in love with another woman for many years, without his wife knowledge, than suddenly the other woman
wanted to have a "names" in his family. Only than the the news broke out. Only than he was forced to decide.
Some insists that they stay married, some of them went back to their wife (in order to settle the case, the man will have to pay off his new love),
some went off with his new love and some lose both of them. Some even lost everything wife, children, lover and money.
In this modern complicated era, even old man wanted to re-married. Some older husband that being married for more than 30 years, have grown up chidlren, have grandchildren, has met up with some China woman "China Doll we called it"
who are half of their age and he believes he has found the holy grail! And he insisted that they get married.
Some husband will try to blame all the fault onto his wife.
He will tell his story often and to anyone who will listen, to the point that they will finally begin to truly
believe that the left behind wife deserves punishment.
The faithful spouse will question and keep replay their marriage in their mind trying to find some hint of all the
unhappiness they are told of by the unfaithful spouse. They will wonder why thier spouse never complained if they were unhappy
or why they never made a request for changes in the relationship.
Is this Fate or Coincidence? Can you tell from your BaZi 4 Pillars chart?
The anwser is again a big YES. Whether you like it or not, somehow it is pre-destined. Some manage to control the sitiuation
wisely and choose wisely but some are very confused and make a bad decision.
Those who choose wisely will have a clear mind at the point of time and this is also
reflected in his BaZi Four Pillars. Some even lost both his wife and children and lost a lot of money (some even more). There was one case, that this guy just packed his
belongings, left his family. But he is not going over or moving into is new house with his new love. He rented a room!
He must be very confused.
Now let see what I have. He was born on 9 April 1978. His map is included here.
Chart 1. His BaZi chart
Chart 2. His 大运 "Ta Yun" and years
About his BaZi.
1. His chart shows that two ladies are fighting over him.
2 .His wife is caring and take care of him like she is taking care of her son.
3. He has a nagging wife who has gotten quite comfortable at dishing out the orders, you know the type, the ones who leave the list of jobs that need to be done.
4. His wife earns more money than him. Whenever possible and as l ong as She can afford it, She will buy it for him.
5. They were married in 2005.
6. He has extra-marital affair in 2006 just after one year of marriage.
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