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Child going to suffer but BaZi Calculator said otherwise

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Monday, 23 June 2025

Yesterday night received a call from a friend and said “Can I ask you a question?”. He told me that his niece just gave birth to a baby boy Sunday June 22 at 7.35am. A friend told her that her my sweet baby boy will grow up and suffer various life's hardships in the future? Now she is very sad and worried. Is this real, he asked?

They also mentioned that the boy marriage will end up with divorce. What type of friend she has! That’s a heavy and unkind thing for someone to say especially right after the joy of a child being born. Even with me specialize in BaZi and astrology, while birth charts can reveal tendencies or traits, they cannot guarantee events like divorce or unhappiness. This is because people shape their own lives through choices, values, relationships, and the environments they grow up in. A child’s future is not cursed or doomed by the day or time he was born. What he needs now is love, care, and support and the correct way of nurturing him.

I told him it worth gently reminding her sister that a child’s life is shaped by many factors love, care, opportunities, and choices. Blindly like that can be unsettling, every baby is unique and has the potential for a bright future. If your sister is feeling disturbed by what was said, encourage her to focus on what she can do as a parent - raising her son with kindness, strength, and wisdom. Even the future is written but - it’s written in how we live and love.

As for what her friends told her that her baby will grow up suffering based on the time and day of his birth this sounds like something tied to superstition or maybe astrology (this is no superstition). We believe that birth charts, including the time and date someone is born, can influence their future or personality. Now let’s take a look into the baby chart.

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Ren 壬 water born in the month of Wu 午 fire. Ren 壬 water with another Ren 壬 water at his month stem and with Xin 辛 metal, now I know why her friend said what was said. Her friend must have believed that this is a Weak Ren 壬 water day master. By this means Metal is his Useful Ten Gods 喜用神 and Water is his favorable 喜神. Both Metal and Water are weak. Haiz, only know the tip of the iceberg can kill someone. This Ren 壬 water surrounded by Wood, Fire and Earth plus careful evaluation turning this into a Fake Cong Ge extreme weak a follower BaZi.

I am happy that my BaZi Calculator is correct! You can check out his BaZi with our BaZi Calculator. The picture above and the following reading come from there.

Follower - Fake Cong Ge extreme weak Ren 壬 Water day master.
Useful Ten Gods 喜用神 is Fire.
Favorable 喜神 is Wood.
Unfavorable 忌神 are Metal and Water.
Earth is also your favorable 喜神.

Wood is strong reveal and rooted. Even his first 2 TaYun are with his unfavourable metal but it will not harm his Useful Ten Gods. With the following 2 TaYun with Earth, following by 2 Fire TaYun and another 2 Wood, this is a good BaZi Four Pillars of Destiny.

I told him to ask his sister to go and use my BaZi Calculator and take a look. His son has every chance to grow up happy, build a good life, have a loving marriage, and raise children of his own - just like anyone else. And with a caring mother by his side, he already has the most important gift of all: a strong beginning.

Me even somehow can predict the future but no one - not even with me – can 100% say that there is not a single chance for changes, there are always possibility, especially something as deeply personal as marriage and family life.

Here’s what I can say with confidence, if that boy grows up in a home filled with love, guidance, and good values, he's much more likely to form healthy relationships, able to choose a supportive partner, build a happy family and raise children with love and responsibility.

Even when my BaZi Calculator does show a bad marriage but a joyful marriage and a fulfilling family life are not handed out by fate - there are still choices - our choices - they’re built through emotional maturity, communication, respect, and shared goals. These are all things he can learn as he grows up.

Therefore when we see a BaZi Four Pillars with bad marriage, don't worry and don't be anxious, focuses on giving him a strong foundation, there is every reason to hope for a bright and loving future.



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