'Spouse stars' in grave. Will it be hard to get married? Are these just mere coincidences?
Friday, 20 March 2009
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It seems like every week I have a new message from someone unique telling me that they are having a hard time finding
someone to spend the rest of their life with.
Different reasons seem to be holding each one down respectively,
but the end result of confusion and sadness is usually about the same.
Some asked me, it this because his wife stars "are sealed in the grave".
When Spouse Stars go into grave 配偶星入墓, this does not necessary means that the person cannot get married. Spouse stars can come out from the grave.
This will depend on the person's luck his/her 10 years luck cycle (大运 "ta yun").
There are many occasions when a person is just running out of luck of getting married. For them, getting married is never being easy.
For them a marriage certificate is hard to get.
Are they not work hard enough just to get married, or this is because of his/her personality or it just his/her destiny?
Or they have no other choice but just accept the reality?
Couples who being together so years often wind up happily married for the rest of their lives.
But some couples might have been living together for many years but once they approached marriage, one of them just cannot afford the commitment and run away.
Can this be seen fro the person's BaZi Four Pillars of Destiny? Yes, it sure can.
Basically it cannot run away from two main points.
1. His or her chart, her luck the 10 years luck cycle (大运 "ta yun") do not permit their spouse stars to come into place. This you cannot change.
2. His or her personality. Personality or characteristics is difficult to change but this is not impossible. Unfortunately, only very few are aware that their characteristics is causing them their marriage.
This point no 2. is somehow related to point no 1.
For all ladies, Zheng-guan 正官 and Qi-sha 七杀 are your spouse stars.
Now take an exmaple. She was born on 7 December 1981.
Chart 1. Her BaZi Four Pillars of Destiny
Now, let us look at her BaZi.
1. Her chart shows that her spouse stars are well hidden. Some called this "Spouse Stars go into grave" at a place set aside for the dead 配偶星入墓 "pei ou xing ru mu".
But this does not necessary means she cannot get married. Spouse stars can "come out from grave".
2. Spouse stars battling with their enemeis and their enemies have strong support.
Chart 2. Her 10 years luck cycle (大运 "ta yun").
Now, let us look at her luck.
1. From 2001, for ten continous years, her spouse stars have strong support. This is good possibilty of marriage.
But the reality is cruel.
2.In the year 2004 and 2005 her spouse stars appeared at the stem level with strong support.
Spouse stars coming out from their grave.
So she will have a good chance of getting married.
"BUT both her spouse stars were taking away. They were combined and transformed.
When there was strong support, there was no spouse stars to support."
The same combinationa will happened every time her spouse stars appear from the top level (stem level).
The reality was her man did came into her life but it did not materialise.
3. In 2007, other stars were combined and transformed into her spouse stars. Again she will meet her man.
"BUT this time the support were taking away when they were combined and transformed.
"When there was spouse stars, there was no support."
The reality was, she did meet with her man, but their relationship did not last long. The man insisted that they live together before getting married.
But being a traditional lady, she rejected the offer. This is her character and personlity. This resulted in their subsequent separation.
So, from above point 2. and point 3. you can see that
"When there was strong support, there was no spouse stars to support."
"When there was spouse stars, there was no support."
These are the reason behind her hardship in getting married. The guy up there really know how to play tricks on us.
Do you still think that all these were just merely coincidence? Or were these pre-destined? I let you decide for yourself.
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