I have been doing my own study and reading books plus  online research on Bazi  for quite sometime. Can you kindly help me clear my doubts?

I was born in 14 Oct 1985 XXX. I would like to know which is my favorable or favorable element? Which come first? Is it water or wood?

Thank You.

Base on your bazi chart, both water & woods are actually your unfavorable element.

If you're doing it by yourself your own self-research on your bazi to determine your favorable element, I believe you'd miss out some important part.

Many sites and books tell a bit but left out the bigger most important part. You may have come across theories like the strength of your day master is determined by the month or season you were  born, but this is only the general.  The rest of the pillar & its hidden element play a very important role too. Combination and about 90% of the books in the market do not tell the condition for them to be transformed. And these conditions are complicated and cannot be told in just one or two days.

Cheers.