Both husband and wife are having their own problems like at work etc. the two of you need to talk more, more open. You can be frustrated, demanding and sometimes have temper. His current TaYun is exhausting, that’s why he is slow. Talk to him, let him start slower and start from there. He will face some problems with his career. He needs to grab the opportunities when they come and stay put and stay away from troubles. This can create problems in the household.
Husband and wife need to work extra hard in order for this marriage to work and to be happy.
Cheers.